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About James Gorton

I am happily married to Nadine, a person I've known for 20+ years. She and her late husband owned Airpark Auto Service where I took my car for years. Four years after my wife died we began dating and the rest is history. We have a blended family of 6 children between us and love visiting them across this country. We recently had our third grandchild between us. We love to hike, bike and ski. I am a psychologist and do relational life coaching for marriages and families primarily. I love what I do and never get tired of seeing marriages and families move to more healthy places in their lives. Five years ago my oldest daughter Deborah encouraged me to begin writing my thought into a blog I call my Jlog (Jim's log). I have become more and more passionate in connecting everyday experiences to spiritual truths. I hope that as you read my Jlog, you will gain insight into your personal life and experience true growth in your personal and relational life.

Leading by Example


Friday March 25, 2011 I don’t know about you, but I have heard over and over that we need to lead by example.  Leading by example is the greatest teacher.  A leader leads by example, whether he intends to or … Continue reading

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Vacations


How many of you need a vacation? I know I do. My vacations are typically a week or so in duration a couple of times a year interspersed with some long weekends throughout. Some of you because of your jobs … Continue reading

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Nevertheless, a Detour


Wednesday March 23, 2011 Have you ever had a desire that was so tempting in your life that you were willing to do anything to fulfill that desire? It may have been a car that you had your heart set … Continue reading

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An Amazing Man


Tuesday, March 22, 2011 If God came to you and said that he would give you one wish, what wish might that be? What would be your request? Would it be that God brings about the best marriage you could … Continue reading

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Arrogant, Prideful Children


Monday march 21, 2011 The last qualities that parents want coming out of their children are arrogance and pride. My dad grew up in an age when it was embarrassing to have prideful children. There was an old saying in … Continue reading

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In Heaven


Saturday 19, 2011 Yesterday, I decided to take some time for myself. I packed up the truck put Monty, my–well Victoria’s Cavalier King Charles dog, in the truck, made some sandwiches, slipped in a couple of apples, and headed north … Continue reading

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Staying Power


Friday March 18, 2011 There was a deodorant advertisement a few years ago that had the slogan “the deodorant with staying power.” It was supposed to continue covering your body odor throughout the day and not leave you. When I … Continue reading

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Sacrificial Friendship


Thursday March 17, 2011 True friendships are in short supply today. Or could it be that my skills as a friend is something that needs to be worked on. When I think of the friends that I would call my … Continue reading

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He Who Hesitates


Wednesday March 16, 2011 It’s a very old saying, he who hesitates is lost. I did some research and found that the earliest use of this proverb was used by Joseph Addison, an English essayist and poet, in the play … Continue reading

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Don’t Cry Over Spilled Milk


Tuesday March 15, 2011 How many of you reading my jlog today have heard the saying “Don’t cry over spilled milk”. It’s not used much any more like the saying I sometimes use in my counseling “one swallow doesn’t make … Continue reading

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