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About James Gorton

I am happily married to Nadine, a person I've known for 20+ years. She and her late husband owned Airpark Auto Service where I took my car for years. Four years after my wife died we began dating and the rest is history. We have a blended family of 6 children between us and love visiting them across this country. We recently had our third grandchild between us. We love to hike, bike and ski. I am a psychologist and do relational life coaching for marriages and families primarily. I love what I do and never get tired of seeing marriages and families move to more healthy places in their lives. Five years ago my oldest daughter Deborah encouraged me to begin writing my thought into a blog I call my Jlog (Jim's log). I have become more and more passionate in connecting everyday experiences to spiritual truths. I hope that as you read my Jlog, you will gain insight into your personal life and experience true growth in your personal and relational life.

Dancing for Daddy


Nadine and I went to church last week and said hello to all the friends we have gotten to know over the years.  We took our regular seats in the front row to the right side of the stage, beginning … Continue reading

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Finding Favor


When I was growing up I sought the favor of my mom and dad.  I was seeking their approval (not knowing that I was doing such a thing at the time) which readily came from my mom but was harder … Continue reading

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Four Years and Counting


I can’t believe that four years ago yesterday, I was standing at the altar and saying I do to my bride as we began our journey for the rest of our lives.  Nadine and I decided to celebrate our fourth … Continue reading

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Starving For Eggs


Yesterday I came home early from work and began helping Nadine put on the finishing touches to our Christmas decorations before our Bible a study group came over.  Personalized ornaments on our Christmas tree.  Putting up garland on the fireplace … Continue reading

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Three Decades Renewed


Today I had an encounter that took me back thirty years. It started yesterday when I got to my office. I saw on my answering system that a call had come in. As I played back the call it was … Continue reading

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Simple Pleasures


I hope your Thanksgiving was a wonderful experience with lots of food and relational connection with people you love.  I can say that my life was full of simple pleasures. The day started by getting the turkey ready for cooking. … Continue reading

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Thanksformation from a Bostonian


You might think it strange putting such a weird word (thanksformation) in the title but if you hang on and follow my drift it will begin to make sense–I hope. Here it goes. I lived in Boston for 7 years … Continue reading

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Heart Restoration


My daughter in Chicago is an example of strength and encouragement to me.  A few years ago she completed her Ph.D. in Psychology and promptly passed one the most grueling exams to pass her licensure test for becoming a Psychologist. … Continue reading

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Finding The Fake


Nadine and I went on our 20 mile bike ride yesterday.  It was a glorious day with no wind and temperatures hovering around 65-70.  We passed the fake Swans in the three ponds along Hayden that I wrote about 14 … Continue reading

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Singing With Mom


I went up to Colorado Springs to be with my mom this past weekend and something amazing happened. Let me give you a little backdrop on my mom. She is 96 and is coming up on her 97th birthday in … Continue reading

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